My Job Sucks: How to Love (Tolerate) the Job You Can’t Afford to Quit…Yet
February 1, 2011
How to Love (ok, Tolerate) the Job You Can’t Afford to Quit… Yet
If you’ve seen the movie “Office Space” you’ll remember the scene where the female coworker overhears the main character, Peter, saying he’s about to lose it because his commute stinks, his bosses are idiots, his work is meaningless and he thinks his girlfriend is cheating on him. “Uh oh…” says the Sally Sunshine coworker. “Sounds like somebody’s got a case of the Mondays.”
Not to be crass but, really, you want to inflict on her exactly what Peter’s neighbor suggests. (Rated R for language; not for little ears.)
Let’s Get Real
In all seriousness, do you have a case of the Mondays? Every day? Do you feel this way at work? Stuck. Wishing for something better. Knowing that there just has to be more to work than TPS reports (again, from “Office Space”).
A few words of encouragement:
- YOU control your professional and career development. Not your boss or the company you work for. It’s up to you to make something positive happen… and YOU CAN DO IT.
- And, a favorite idea from Claire Colvin, Senior Editor for TruthMedia Internet Group, your job does not define you but how you DO it does.
How do you show up at work now? Are you pouting or positive? Do you mope with a little black cloud over your head or do you find something productive to do every day (or at least week) that is in alignment with your career goals and personal brand?
It starts with clearly defining what you want from your career and what you want to be known for (your career vision), then making those opportunities happen for yourself even in — especially in — a job you can’t afford to quit.
Because here’s the best news: It won’t last forever if you are intentional about reaching your career goals. You can start looking for a new job whenever you want. In the meantime, until you find something “better”…
Add Something New
Find … better yet create … an opportunity for yourself at work to shine. To do what YOU do best.
Fact Finders: Find a new or existing project that needs your data-digging strengths. A new research project, a feasibility study, a fact-checking assignment. You naturally need and seek the facts, figures, data to justify and prioritize your work. Volunteer to do what you do best to make sure work the company is doing is worth the investment of time, energy, money. The natural strategist, you’ll make sure what everyone is working on helps move the company toward meeting its business goals.
Follow Thrus: Is there a project that isn’t being managed as effectively as it could? Without ruffling feathers of the current project owners, offer your natural expertise in creating a plan, defining the steps, helping to manage those steps and measuring the results. It’s what you do… you can’t help it. Put your talents to use to help your team or organization complete what they’ve started and measure the outcomes. The natural project manager, you’ll make sure it gets done.
Quick Starts: You’re the natural brainstormer. Are any of your colleagues “stuck” and can’t seem to think what to do to make progress on a project or set of tasks? You are the natural “unsticker.” Offer to brainstorm different solutions with your counterparts to help them work their way out of the paper bag and get moving again. You’ll save them from wasting time in “analysis paralysis.”
Implementors: You strive for quality outcomes, not just band-aid quick-fixes. Jump in and support a project that needs “beta testing” before a full roll out. Run the project through quality tests to ensure the biggest bugs are worked out before the whole team or organization has to implement something new. It’s what you do best! You’ll have your company time, money and other precious resources.
Delegate Something Old
Is there something in your job description that you’ve done a 1000 times and, well, you’re “over it?” Could it be a development opportunity for a junior colleague? A chance for growth for someone else on your team or someone you manage?
Three reasons to delegate it:
- When you delegate a task, activity or project that empowers someone else to put their strengths to work and do what they do best, you’re not only giving them the opportunity to show the team and organization what they’ve got but you’re increasing their level of engagement.
- When you give it away to someone whose natural talent(s) fits the task, that task will be accomplished more productively and efficiently than if you try to complete something that pushes you against your natural modis operandi (M.O.).
- When you give up one thing, you’re freeing yourself to take on more in your role to fit your unique strengths… to do what YOU do best. Please reference “Add Something New.”
Stay Positive
Get rid of the black cloud. And fast. No one likes to work with a Negative Nelly (or Ned). Fake it if you have to for a while. But put on a positive attitude and focus on doing something productive. Especially if you suffer from what I call “workplace depression,” the best cure for on-the-job doldrums is helping someone else accomplish something great. (See #2 on this list of 10 tips for staving off depression.
Not “Just Another Job Seeker”
October 11, 2010
In my last post I urged job seekers to GET OUT! A good first step to REPOWERING your job search. But once you’re out… then what?
Your actions should be based on this one simple rule:
“People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care” – John C. Maxwell
And when they know how much you care, you are no longer “just another job seeker.” You’re someone worth telling others about.
RELATIONSHIPS, RELATIONSHIPS, RELATIONSHIPS
Tis true. It’s about much more than just getting out. And while the getting out part is indeed the first step to repowering your search, it’s what you do with the time you spend out there that truly counts.
Once you have made the decision to disconnect from the computer and all the online job boards to attend functions with other live human beings, your goal is to make connections and create mutually beneficial relationships that can help you in life as well as your job search.
Some tips on how.
BE AN EXCELLENT COMMUNICATOR.
Don't be THAT guy.
First rule of excellent communications: LISTEN. When you’re out networking make it your goal to be the best listener in the room. Take notes if you need to to remember key conversations and those with whom you spoke. A quick note on the back of the other person’s business card to remind you of that one critical thought or piece of information will prove valuable when trying to recall who said what.
When it is your turn to talk, you have to be exceptionally clear about what you want, what value you — and only you — offer, and be able to articulate this for others to “get it.” Work on honing that 30-second “elevator” pitch to answer “what’s in it for you or other potential employer if you hire me?” Indeed, why YOU over the job search masses?
ROLL UP YOUR SLEEVES.
While listening you’re bound to pick up on other’s needs that you can fulfill. Even if it’s mowing the lawn for the grandma of the CPA you just met… doing the make-up for the Realtor’s 17-year-old daughter for the big Homecoming dance… teaching an entrepreneur QuickBooks to create a more efficient billing process… Introducing another job seeker to one of your contacts who might help them… The point is listen and find something you can contribute to making the other person’s life a little easier. And if you can fill a need that aligns with the work you are looking for, all the better.
BE THE EXPERT.
Give presentations to local groups. Blog. Post and answer questions on LinkedIn. Rally groups on LinkedIn. All around a topic related to the work you want to do. Tweet about news-worthy industry trends. The more you show you know what you’re talking about, the better. This is especially true when you are trying to make a career transition into a new role or field in which you may not have the most experience of all possible candidates. Just be aware of how you come across. Strive always to provide information that is practical, applicable, useful. Not to puff up your own chest.
CREATE CHAMPIONS.
All this work will pay off as you create “brand champions” for YOUR personal brand. You become “referrable” as a job seeker. Your resume becomes “forwardable” because they like you and want to help. Remember, we all do business with (and hire) those we know, like and trust. Work to establish the relationships and position yourself as the “go to” gal or guy for the work you want to do, and you’ll have people touting you when you’re not even looking.
STAY AUTHENTIC.
The trick here is to be the expert, the one worth referring with personality. When you show a little of who you really are while imparting information your “audiences” can’t live without, you endear yourself in an emotional way. Think Marketing 101: it’s about engaging people on a personal, emotional level so they’ll trust and appreciate the information.
And let’s face it, no job — unless you are truly desperate financially — is worth checking your personality, your strengths and natural talents, your instincts at the door. Can you do it? Sure. I worked for 15 years in a career path that was all wrong both from a functional mismatch standpoint (my strengths were not what the job required) and the cultures I was in didn’t appreciate my goofball personality.
I’d would be happy to share my story in more detail to help underscore the all-importance of this: Stay authentic. No matter what.
4 Reasons You’re Still Un- (Under-) Employed (And What to Do About Them)
August 31, 2010
Discussions on one of the many LinkedIn groups dedicated to connecting job seekers and those in career transition are changing tone as it’s taking some job seekers longer than expected to land in their next position.
One in particular asks, “Job searching without success?” The reasons given by job seekers for being overlooked and remaining un-(and under-) employed are many but a few clear themes stand out. Here’s what they’re saying… and what to do about it… starting with your resume.
“I’m Not Getting Called for Interviews.”
IYRS… It’s your RESUME, silly. The sole purpose of your resume is to ensure you survive the automated keyword search, make it past the HR department screeners, land on the hiring manager’s desk and have her think, “WOW… I HAVE to call this one in for the interview.” Then, of course, the trick is to impress the hell out of ‘em in person.
If your resume reads like a job description of your current and past positions, you’re sunk. Likely the 100s (if not 1000s) of other applicants applying for the exact same position can claim the same experience in the same tasks. Sorry, but it’s true. What the potential employer actually cares about is whether or not you can produce results. Specifically results that will make or same her money. Demonstrate the VALUE you will bring to the next job by articulating results you’ve produced in the past while a showing a bit of your personality to help them understand if you’re a good cultural fit.
[Stay tuned for a follow-up post outlining How to Avoid 3 Big Resume Mistakes.]
“I’m Too Old.”
Ageism is alive and well in this economy despite what all my HR friends are saying. I know too many Boomer s(and older) seekers who complain about being overlooked. So, unless the dates of your education are recent and important (you just received your PhD in Organizational Leadership, your MBA in Marketing or your BS in Information Systems), leave dates off that point to your age or a professional career that is more than 20 years old. Same goes for certifications and awards. List them, leave off the dates.
“I’m Overqualified.”
Position your experience as a Unique Value Proposition to the employer. Show them that you can produce results the day you step foot in the door and connect those results to their future success.
You also do not need to give the history of your professional life back to the first job in high school, college or post-graduation. Dedicate the precious real estate on your resume and LinkedIn profile to the MOST RELEVANT experience. And, yes, it’s OK to tone down your past job titles. I know many a returning-to-corporate-American entrepreneur who list themselves as “Director of Business Development” or “Operations Manager” in companies they’ve owned.
“I’ve Had Too Many Jobs.”
Job hopping is somewhat expected for Gen X- and Yers though Boomer hiring managers still roll their eyes if you haven’t managed to stay in one position for more than 2 years. Minimize the appearance of job hopping on your resume by eliminating the months and taking out any insignificant positions you were in for only a fews months especially when that position has no relevance to the position you’re going for.
Try It And…
Report back. If making these simple changes continue not to get you noticed, I want to know so we can delve deeper and get you The Job, not just another paycheck. ASAP.
10 Commandments of Personal Branding
June 22, 2010
If “branding” for a company refers to how it differentiates itself as well as its products and services from the competition by articulating its unique selling proposition (USP), then what is this business of “personal branding” all about? You’ve no doubt heard the term and I hope to provide clarity around its meaning and, more importantly, about why you should care.
What Is A Brand?
A brand is so much more than your logo, your signage, your tagline. A brand is a promise… It is the promise put forth by a company, product, service or individual to key stakeholders as to what they can expect from said company, product, service or individual. In short, it’s the sum of all experiences a “consumer” has with the entity that produces the emotional and psychological relationships between the entity and its “consumers.”
So, that said…
Do You Have a “Personal Brand?”
The answer is always yes. Whether you have been intentional or not about creating it, you do have a brand. You have a reputation, something or several that you are known for whether you want to be known for them or not.
The key to effective personal branding is to be intentional. You must know who you are, what you stand for, what value you offer then demonstrate that promise to the world.
And as with company, product and service brands, your personal brand is best built on your UNIQUE VALUE PROPOSITION (UVP). That is, the unique value only you bring to any situation — on the job, in volunteer capacities, at home — that no one else can offer. What place do you own in the minds of your key “stakeholders?” What do you want to be known for? What promise do you make to your “consumers?”
Your UVP
You add the most value when you are true to what you do best: your innate strengths, your natural talents, your unique instincts that make you YOU.
Once you understand these things about yourself and are ready to embrace them fully and shout your UVP from the mountain tops, the next step is to demonstrate that you are in fact already that person.
For a business owner, your UVP to your customers might be that you are easy to do business with, especially compared to your competitors.
For a leader or manager, consider creating your UVP for your employees as one who empowers your people to focus on their strengths to add the most value to bottom line results.
For an employee, your UVP ought to be that you are The One to turn to for those things you do better than anyone else on the team.
For a career changer 0r job seeker, focus your UVP on the value you will bring to a potential employer by doing what you do best naturally. It’s just what you do and you’re really good at it!
So What?
Why care about personal branding? In this day and age of faster-than-the-speed-of-light, reputation-demonlishing social media (did you hear about the fake BP Twitter account?), you have to own and manager your brand as fervently as you would your teenage daughter’s reputation. Seriously. Because if you aren’t intentional about it yourself, someone else will undoubtedly manage your personal brand for you. Why leave it to chance?
Here are some ideas on “how to.”
10 Commandments of Personal Branding
10. Own Your Brand
Be intentional about developing your personal brand or others will create it for you.
9. Be Consistent
Facebook or face-to-face, send the same message.
8. Appearance Matters
Don’t dress for the position you have. Dress for the position you strive for. Same goes online, too.
7. Stand For Something
The most memorable brands have a point of view. What’s yours?
6. Stay Focused
Act in alignment with your values and your
ultimate vision and goals.
5. Do Unto Others
Do for others that which you want them to do for you. You go first.
4. Create Brand Champions
Equip your network to advocate for your brand.
3. Keep It Personal
Face-time and other personal touches earn the most points and show you care.
2. Don’t Tell. Do.
Demonstrate your brand in your words and actions. Walk the talk.
And the #1 Commandment…Authenticity. Authenticity. Authenticity.
Be true to YOU: your strengths, your values, and the value only you can add.
And Just for Levity
And in all this, just remember not to take yourself too seriously either. Oy.
